The male G-Spot or
Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric
philosophy considers the male G-Spot a man's emotional
sex centre. Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous
amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with
stimulation of his penis or "lingam", massaging
his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing
to the man.
Since the most direct way to massage
the man's Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes
time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is
not for every man. The benefits are many and the pleasure
can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or
those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another,
massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience.
Not only in terms of ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver",
but in the sexual empowerment it bestows on the "giver".
In the beginning of the 20th century,
many wives used a steel device that was sold at the
time to manually massage their husband's prostate during
lovemaking. And during World War II, military medics
gave prostate massages to soldiers who hadn't been with
a woman for months as a treatment for "pelvic congestion."
Some men only like to have their prostate
touched when they're fully aroused.
Others feel that having their prostate stimulated increases
their erection and leads to the best orgasms they've
ever experienced. There are even cases in which men
don't even need to have their penises stimulated because
the feeling that comes from the prostate's manipulation
is stimulation enough to achieve full blown orgasms.
Remember that in order to completely
explore this erogenous zone with your partner, you need
to feel comfortable, experimental and playful! Since
everyone is different and enjoys different things, experimentation
is the best way to discover your preferences.
Men who partake in a prostate
massage state that the orgasm is much more intense than
an orgasm with traditional sex or masturbation and it
is frequently recommended as a form of sexual interaction
when the other partner is either unavailable or the
male simply does not wish to engage in other forms of
sexual intercourse for whatever reason. Other individuals
simply find a prostate milking to be an excellent
form of sexual pleasure and equate it to manipulation
of the female G-spot. |