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Male
Orgasm
In a human male orgasm, there are rapid, rhythmic
contractions of the prostate, urethra and the muscles at the base of the penis,
which (in the adult) typically forces stored semen to be expelled through the
penis' urethral opening, in a process known as peristalsis. This is referred
to as ejaculation. The process generally takes from 3 to 10 seconds and is usually
extremely pleasurable.
Orgasm is generally induced by direct stimulation of the penis. Some men experience
heightened orgasm by direct stimulation of the prostate through the perineum
or rectum.
As a man ages, it is normal for the amount of ejaculate to diminish, and hence,
the length of time the man sustains orgasm also diminishes somewhat. This does
not affect the pleasurable feeling of orgasm at all, it merely shortens the
duration of it.
Following ejaculation, a refractory period usually occurs during which a man
cannot have another orgasm. This period can be anywhere
from less than a minute to over half a day, depending on age and other individual
factors. A few cases have been reported of men who appear to have no refractory
period at all. Scientists theorize that a pituitary gland difference may cause
this unique ability.
How To Enhance Male Orgasm
Pay attention to physical sensations
Listen to the noises surrounding you, such as music or her moaning (or even
your own). Feel her body against yours and use your hands to explore other areas
of her. Inhale the scent of sex and enjoy the redolence surrounding both of
you. Use your mouth to kiss and taste her body. And finally, look at her, or
use as mirror to look at the both of you while you're into each other.
Fantasise
Sometimes fantasising about being with your partner in a dangerous situation,
or role playing that you've just met her and don't even know her name can serve
to enhance the sensations of sex and lead to a very powerful, orgasmic release.
As well, fantasising that she's someone else
entirely is also okay; just don't tell her you're doing it, or worse, call out
the wrong name.
Have her stimulate other parts of your body
The anus is where most men's G-spots are found.
While you're having sex, having her simply rub the outside of your anus, or,
even using her finger to massage your prostate may lead to one hell of an orgasm.
If you're totally against the idea of anal touch, then have her wrap her hand
around your testicles and massage them, and even tug on them lightly. Having
her do this when you feel your orgasm approaching provides the best results.
nterrupt your sex
While you're having sex, stop the lovemaking and engage in other activities
for a little while. Then penetrate her again and keep doing this until you're
about ready to explode -- and I mean that literally.
Interrupting the sex will not only intensify your orgasm; it will intensify
hers as well. If she begs you to keep going, and you don't, chances are you
will have a squirter on your hands.
Tighten and release your muscles
Whether it's your pelvic or your thigh, squeezing your muscles for a few seconds
and then letting them relax will serve to make your orgasm an unforgettable
one.
Obviously, I am not suggesting that you should blatantly hold your breath and
squeeze your muscles while your women stares at you, petrified about what's
going to happen next.
Be subtle, but feel free to exercise your Kegel muscles, or tighten your thighs
while you're making love.
Engage in some bondage
Whoever said that there's pleasure in pain was right on target. Sometimes, hair
pulling, spanking and choking can lead to unforgettable orgasms. Of course,
your woman has to be willing to do these things to you.
Then again, I personally get off on doing such things to my woman. There's nothing
quite like having a woman submit to you and beg you to spank her. Needless to
say, when I arrive, I arrive big time.
Focus on your orgasm
Many guys tend to pump away like maniacs when they're about to orgasm and ejaculate.
I suggest that you slow down when you feel yourself about to let go. Penetrate
her at a much slower pace, and focus on the sensations involved when your ejaculate
approaches the base of your penis and makes it way out of your body
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