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Masturbation Techniques
Young boys easily find out easily about masturbation, they grow up more aware
of their genitals than women do and quickly find out what gives them erections.
They know how to handle it as they touch it every time they go to the toilet
or have a shower. They learn quickly about sexual pleasure and at a much earlier
age than women. By 18, 90% of boys have started masturbating.
Men often think of masturbation as a reward for something or way of compensating
themselves when things aren't going their way. Teenagers masturbate more when
they're not in relationships, even grown men resort to masturbation when they
find themselves single to reduce sexual tension
Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most
men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual
response. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean
you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their
full erotic and orgasmic potential.
Make time for more than a quickie
Most men first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly
and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create
a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where
your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make
sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t
trying to finish quickly before somebody interrupts you.
Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune
into your body
Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of men do, and while porn can be great, it
also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you
from what’s actually happening in your body. You don’t need to throw
the porn away, but for a few times, masturbate without porn, and concentrate
on yourself for a change!
Does your left hand know what your right hand
is doing?
Do you always use the same one hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If you’re
among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange
at first, the rhythm might be off, it may almost feel like sex with someone
new for the first time. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an
old hand some tricks.
Experiment with positions
If you aren’t an experimental type, it’s time to start. If you’re
used to masturbating lying down on your back, try sitting up. If you normally
sit in a chair, try standing or kneeling. As with all these changes, this might
feel ridiculous at first, and you’ll probably go back to old faithful,
but see what masturbation feels like in different positions and notice if it
brings with it any new sensations.
Get your hips moving
The way your body moves when you masturbate is probably very different from
the way it moves when you’re having sex with someone else. Many men don’t
move at all when they masturbate. Try to move your hips when you masturbate,
simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Notice how moving your hips in different
ways can bring you closer to, and at times take you farther away from, the point
of orgasm.
Use different hand strokes
Most men learn early on that a vigorous stroke does the trick. This intense
up and down stimulation usually ends in a good orgasm.
But there are dozens of other strokes that each bring with them different sensations,
and different orgasms. Roll your penis in between your hands, moving your hands
up and down your shaft. Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and
down. Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.
Explore your shaft
While most of the nerve endings on the penis are at the head, and specifically
the frenulum, many men will have spots on their shaft that are unusually sensitive.
Try putting one hand at the base of your penis and press it towards your body
while experimenting with different hand strokes along the shaft of your penis.
Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one
side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.
Reach around, yourself
For many men the testicles are a very sensitive area that responds well to feelings
of touch and pressure. Take your forefinger and thumb and make them in a circle
at the top of your scrotum. Gently tug on your scrotum as your masturbating.
This is both a way to prevent you from ejaculating and a way to extend sexual
feelings in your body. Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling,
scratching, and rubbing.
Check out the neighbourhood
While the penis and scrotum tend to be the focus of masturbatory attention,
if you’re looking to open things up a bit, be sure to take a tour of some
other nearby areas. The perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus,
is very sensitive to pressure and massage, and rubbing it provides external
prostate stimulation. Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the
anus, both externally and by using a finger for
penetration.
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