For actual anal penetration,
picking a position can be important. Many women want
to be on top, to regulate how fast penetration occurs.
Other like to lie on their stomachs, or crouch doggy-style,
or to be penetrated while lying on their sides. Choose
what's best before you start. As always, control yourself.
Take your time and use lots of lubricant.
People who like anal sex say that
"too much lube is almost enough." Listen to
her -- if she tells you it starts to hurt, back off.
Eventually, a time will come during your lovemaking
where her anus will relax enough to allow the head of
your cock to 'pop' into her. If she is completely relaxed,
that pop should feel completely painless. Now just because
you're inside her is no reason to start pounding away
like mad. Let her body adjust. Take your time. Eventually
you will both be ready for more.
Spoons is a good starting position
Each partner lays on their side, one behind the other.
This helps prevent the penetrating partner from going
too fast, and allows complete control over penetration.
It also brings you closer to your partner so you can
judge their reaction to what you’re doing. Missionary
position
has the receiving partner lay on their back while the
penetrating partner approaches from on top. The penetrating
partner lifts up the calves or shins of the receiver,
exposing the anus. This can be an especially intimate
position, with both partners facing each other. The
‘top’ partner can masturbate the other and
is open to massage and cuddling as well.
Rear entry
or the ‘doggie style’ is the one position
most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry
allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate most deeply,
and may not be the best choice for the beginner. This
position allows the deepest penetration and permits
the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear
entry doesn’t offer the kind of intimacy or ease
of communication that the other positions do, but for
more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount
of thrusting and penetration.
Full front
has the woman lie on her back, drawing her knees up
to her chest and over the shoulders of the man, who
presses down on her face to face. You can place a pillow
under the pelvis to raise it even higher, or the man
can push the woman’s feet over her head. This
position allows for easy penetration and very deep entry.
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