Prepare yourself for anal
sex
The first thing to do is learn to relax. This may include a hot bath beforehand,
an erotic massage or even just a good workout. Remember that the sphincter
muscles around the anus will not
allow things to pass through easily unless you relax and take it slow. Do
not start with something the size of a dildo
or penis. Start with either: a) your partner's finger or b) Small Butt
Plug. The plug provides a unique sensation and many couples consider it
an exciting addition to the bedroom. If you're more comfortable with a partner's
finger then start with that. The basic principle is to start small and work
your way up. Visit our online shop to buy Anal
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Stimulation
There are many objects that can be used to safely stimulate the anus.
A finger, tongue, penis, sex toys...you
name it. If you're thinking about trying anal stimulation, body parts are
probably the best place to start. Fingers are good because they're soft and
are about the right size. Be sure to clip your fingernails before you start.
You don't want to tear the sensitive tissue of the anus and rectum. If you're
thinking of using something other than your body parts, my first suggestion
would be to try an anal sex
toy. They're designed for this purpose, so they're a safer choice than
other objects. Whatever you use, be sure it's slim, smooth and flared at the
base.
One partner should lubricate or place a lubricated condom over his or her finger. Take the finger and arouse the surface of the anus, perhaps making small circular motions as you go. Always pay attention to your partner to indicate whether or not he or she feels comfortable. Slowly attempt to push your finger (or plug) slightly inside the anus. Do not use force - stop immediately if your partner complains of discomfort. If it is difficult to enter the anus, you probably need more lubrication. The first time you try this, the receiver may feel a bit of pain. Anal sex is not for everyone, and if you feel uncomfortable stop and perhaps try again later. Think of this process as training for later anal encounters. Even a finger can provide intense stimulation when it is inserted in the anus.
Once you have tried penetration with a finger a number of times then you can move towards something that is a bit larger. First you have to decide on what type of anal stimulation that you enjoy. Do you enjoy the movement of a finger, the fullness of a butt plug, or the feeling of entry and withdrawal? You may wish to proceed by being penetrated with your partner's penis or by using an anal toy. For those who enjoy the feeling of penetration more than motion or vibration, try butt plugs which are designed specifically for this purpose. A butt plug sits inside the anus, and is not generally used for thrusting back and forth.
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